Writen by Bret Woffinden
We had a recent tragedy in our extended family. Our relative was up in the mountains driving with his wife and baby daughter. They passed another vehicle and hit a semi head on. The entire family was killed instantly. For them, life was too short.
Very sad. A real tragedy.
However, everything that we experience in this life teaches us something - perhaps many things. Sometimes such a tragedy can remind us what matters most in life.
We never know when we are going to go. We hear all the time that we should plan for the future, think long term, and be patient. This is all true, but don't forget about the here and now. Yes, plan for the future as if you will be here to see it. But fully enjoy each and every moment you spend here as if it will be your last.
Do you feel like you are focusing on what is most important? There are thousands of little choices we make each day. We can choose to watch TV, or we can read a book as a family. We can get upset and yell at the kids about mud on the carpet, or we can clean it up together. We can buy junk food at the store or we can plant a garden.
Everyone makes a difference in the world. Parents make a bigger difference because their influence lasts two, three, and perhaps more generations.
When you are deciding what matters most, look at the big picture. Take a step back and ask yourself if your daily actions over the past 3 years have gotten you and your family where you had hoped. If so, keep it up and adjust as needed. If not, what could you change now, so that the next 3 years will be better?
Ask yourself the following questions. How do I want to be remembered by family and friends? If I died right now, would I be remembered that way? Have I accomplished my purpose or calling in life? What big or small changes need to happen in my life so that I will be ready to meet my maker?
Bret and Sharie are freedom fighters for family values. Through study and their own experience, they have found the key elements that bond a family forever. http://www.FamilyExcellence.net |
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